To date, much of this blog has centered around the history of my maternal grandmother, Lurey Curry Albury. Certainly not because of a lack of interest in the ancestry of my grandfather, Lionel Augustus Albury, but simply due to geography and circumstance.
Most of Ma’s family lived nearby us in Nassau, while Pa’s siblings and their families were in Abaco, and we saw them far less frequently. Many I never met.
Plus, we lost my grandfather the day after I turned 13, meaning I didn’t have much opportunity to ask him about his family history.
Which is why, shortly after launching this blog, I was thrilled to receive a long email from my Mom’s first cousin, Jack Albury, who lived in Marsh Harbour. The son of Pa’s brother Ancil, Jack shared with me his memories of the common branches of our family tree.
We corresponded by email and phone in the months that followed. Jack told me about his dad (known as “Spotty,” and a bit of an Abaco legend), whom I’m not sure I ever met, and about his grandparents (my great-grandparents) Frederick Leon Albury and Margaret Eunice Key, both of whom passed away before I was born. Jack answered my questions and queries with patience, humour and honesty.
He recalled picking hog plums from a tree in his grandfather’s yard and spending summer vacations travelling on the Stede Bonnet with his dad, who captained that vessel. As a young boy, Jack sculled passengers to and from Bahamas Airways amphibian aircraft when they landed in the sea near Marsh Harbour.
From the beginning of our Fish Hooks journey, Jack was incredibly supportive of Tom and me. He advised us about shipping and customs, provided referrals to local suppliers and offered encouraging words when we most needed them.
One day, after trying in vain to telephone several Marsh Harbour businesses, I posted a note on Facebook asking if the phones were down. Jack emailed me, confirming that there were in fact phone problems, and asking who I was trying to reach.
I told him, and an hour or so later, I heard back. Jack had physically gone to each of the businesses and asked for their email addresses, so he could send them to me. I was truly touched by his kindness.
Not only did Jack own and operate two local businesses (Frederick’s Agency and Albury’s Trucking) but he helped establish several other companies over the years, including the Boat Harbour Marina. He was an avid supporter of community organizations, such as the Every Child Counts school, and was active for many years in the local political scene.
Seven years ago, in recognition of his business accomplishments and service to the community, Jack was named a Member of the Most Excellent Order of the British Empire (MBE.)
A couple of months ago, Jack began experiencing severe neck pain. Thinking he’d pinched a nerve, he went to the States on January 2 to have it checked out. Within a few weeks, however, it became evident that the diagnosis was much more serious.
This past weekend, less than two months later, my cousin Jack lost his brief and painful battle.
To Jack’s wife, Gaye, their children and grandchildren, his siblings and extended family, Tom and I send our love and deepest condolences. We can only imagine how difficult these past weeks have been, and we’ll be thinking of you in the days ahead.
Jack’s love for his family, friends and community was plain to see. It’s our hope that remembering this, and knowing how many lives he touched and made better, will be a source of comfort for you.
I know Jack had many more family tales to tell, and it saddens me that he’ll never have the chance. But I’m so grateful that he reached out to me, and that we got to know each other and enjoy the moments we did share.
Jack’s Home Going Service will be held this Saturday, February 14th at 3:00 pm at Grace Gym, Agape Christian School in Marsh Harbour. In lieu of flowers, his family has asked that donations be made to Every Child Counts or the Abaco Cancer Society.
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Thanks for these kind words – Uncle Jack touched so many of us. We’re old teachers from Agape who were close friends of Jack and Gaye’s over the years. We’ll be back in Marsh Harbour on the 17th – just a few days after his funeral, unfortunately. We’ll also be in Green Turtle sometime in late April, early May. Drop a note if you’d like to touch base then!
My condolences on the loss of your cousin. Although your time knowing each other was brief it seems like a bond was there connecting you to family members long gone.
Amanda – My condolences to you and Tom and, especially, to Jack’s immediate and extended family. I remember you commenting several times, in this Fish Hooks and GTC/Abaco diary/chronicle, about Jack and the help and information he has extended to you. ECC will be receiving a gift from me in his memory. I appreciate this opportunity to honor and remember the people that have made Abaco my favorite vacation destination in the world!
Penny Bain My condolences to the family jack was a awesome guy.
We will most certainly miss “Uncle Jack”, as he was affectionately called by the ladies at Scotiabank, Marsh Harbour. May his soul rest in peace.
What a wonderful tribute!
Thanks, Evan. 🙂